Guys don’t get the fact that girls look for a guy that can be their BEST friend as well. We LOVE LOVE LOVE being able to talk to their boyfriends about ANYTHING & EVERYTHING. We want to be able to tell you how we’re feeling. Whether it’s about their day , their family , their friends or their favorite tv show , they just want someone to talk to.

Talking to your loved one just makes one feel secure. It shows them that they can really count on someone to be there for them. No matter what the situation is. When a girl has a problem she usually runs to her girlfriend & they have a girls night or do something to talk about it & just vent. But what girls really LOVE is when their boyfriends are the ones to do that. No I’m not saying that the guys have to watch sad movies & eat ice cream all night long & just cry over every little thing , but simply be there for her. When you know she’s upset just hold her & let her cry.

Tell her it’s okay to cry. Tell her that you’re there for her but ACTUALLY be there for her. Someone to talk to & someone we can trust is all we want.

Be honest with each other. Communication is key. I don’t know how many times I can say that but I will say it as much as I have to. Telling each other EVERYTHING no matter what it may be really does help the relationship grow. Someone told me that there as SOME things that a guy can’t talk to a girl about but honestly why wouldn’t you be able to ? If you have nothing to hide then you should have absolutely NO problem talking to your loved one about EVERYTHING.

Talk to them about EVERYTHING. If you don’t talk to each other about everything how do you expect to get along ? How do you expect to get to know each other more ? When you guys talk to each other about any little thing you guys learn to see things eye to eye. You learn about how different/similar you guys think.

That’s just how I personally feel. Relationships should be open about everything.

In my case I like to be COMPLETELY open with my boyfriends. I like to talk about any little thing that may be on my mind or ask them how they feel about things. I love when the guy is open with me & can be comfortable around me. To me my boyfriend can look at another girl & say ‘she’s gorgeous’ or compliment her. Communication makes the trust grow.

By telling me you can only talk to your bf/gf about CERTAIN things & keep SOME things between you & a friend that’s just shady. You should be able to talk to your bf/gf about ALL things.

Don’t lose trust because you aren’t saying everything.

Be HONEST with each other & OPEN about EVERYTHING.

- Oh man. Where do I even begin with this. Well first off let me start off by saying I love my best friend. My brown sugar. You know I sit here & I watch this movie over & over & I only think about this one guy. I think about that 1 guy who makes me smile all the time. No matter how pissed or upset or down I am he’s always the one that had me smiling. He knows more about me than I know about myself. Brown Sugar just takes me into the future & makes me think of the possibilities with him. It makes me think of the all the things that could happen between me & him.

Right now he’s in school. & I’m too far from him. We both made a promise to each other that we would wait until he was out of school & working so that we could both maybe try it out.

Brown Sugar makes me just realize that you can be in love with someone even if you’re not together. It made me realize the difference between loving someone & being IN love with someone. When you love someone you love the things they do for you. You love that they’re there for you. That you can count on them. When you’re IN love someone they’re always on your mind. The number one person you call when you’re feeling down. The one person that you tell EVERYTHING to. When you think about this person or talk about this person you have a huge smile across your face & you always get butterflies. No matter what the topic may be you always think of them. You’re IN love when you know that you can feel safe with them & you never doubt a thing they say or do. They’re your best friend & accept your flaws. Everything about you. They know exactly how to get you to smile or feel good about you even if they don’t do anything special. I honestly don’t know what I’m talking about. Honestly all I know is that I love this kid more than life.

He’s my brown sugar. The one I would do anything for. The one person I think about when I’m down. He brings out the best of me. When I think about him I get emotional. Not because I’m upset or because it’s a bad thing , but because I feel like maybe one day through out these 4-6 years he may find someone who means more to him than I do.

The distance between me & him kills me. It hurts because I feel like the other girls that are around him know more than I do. People ask me his favorite color & honestly I can’t tell you..I can’t tell you what his favorite color , drink , food or anything like that. Me & him were never really like that. The most I can honestly tell you is his middle name & his parents name & some of his HUGE families names. It kills me to know that maybe someone will take him away from me.

I wanna end up like brown sugar. If this is meant to be I wanna be able to feel it. When I see this movie I feel like just being with him. He’s my first & last thought EVERY day. He’s the reason I check my phone every 5 minutes. People may tell me that I’m a text-aholic but honestly I’m not. I just love getting a text from him every time. I love seeing that I’m on his mind. All of my friends see that I love you. But can they see who I’m IN love with ? Can your friends see who you love ?

I love you Brown Sugar

2016<3